So, How’s That Working For You?

I've seen ministries and nations crumble under self-entitled delusions and deceptions. I have also seen them crumble under excessive people-pleasing. Is there a solution?

Please forgive the vernacular and slang used in today’s thoughts. I found I couldn’t express my point in my usual devotional style.

To understand where I am coming from, I suggest you read the chapters in 1 Kings, right after the death of Solomon starting in chapter twelve. “The Fall And Division Of The Nation Of Israel.” I have read this story several times over the years. However, the more I read it, the more a singular thought came to my mind.

DUH!! People are so stupid.

DUH!! Really? Rehoboam, let me get this straight. You’re saying that your good old boy’s network made up of your high school buddies knows more about boring stuff like running a kingdom than all the trusted advisors of the greatest empire of all times? The people are complaining about unfair work practices, and you decide the best way to deal with employee dissatisfaction is to make them work harder and take away more of their rights. You do so just to ensure you and your buddies may continue to live in the lap of luxury? You must have missed the “Let my people go” story that your teachers probably tried to drill into your skull because you were too busy making spit balls in class. How did that decision work for you? I bet you didn’t have a lot of employees signing up for a new contract.

How does that work for any leader? Not well.

By one stupid, arrogant, self-serving decision, you destroyed all that your father and grandfather carefully architected.

Jeroboam, you aren’t exactly on the “The Top Ten Up and Coming Kings List” of your era, either.
You want your people to love you and hail you as king. As a result, you build two golden calves; then you cleverly invent a holiday so your people can worship those idols at home rather than travel to the one place where they can meet with the one true God. Furthermore, you are only doing so because you are afraid that when they get close to the place the one true God dwells, they might come to their senses and return to him.

I guess you didn’t learn from the fallout from the sin of your ancestor, Aaron. Remember what happened when he built a golden calf to keep the people happy-happy while Moses was up the mountain talking to God? And how did your decision to be the ultimate people pleasing, rock-star King work out for you in the long run?

And yet, I have no right to say, “Boy, those Israelites were so stupid back then, good thing we aren’t that dumb today.” No, I’ve seen ministries and nations crumble under the same delusions and deceptions. If the truth be told, I’ve seen strands of the same behaviour in me.

“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me.
Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit.
Then I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will return to you.”
Psalm 51:10

As you read this, you might think you are let off the hook because you don’t consider yourself a leader. However, I am talking to parents, Sunday School teachers, fast-food joint shift managers, pastors, business leaders, politicians, and even the kid who was assigned to supervise a simple classroom project. I am speaking to anyone who has the responsibility to manage anyone, even older brothers and sisters assigned to watch over their younger siblings while mama is preparing supper. I am also talking to myself.

As leaders, we must keep our hearts pure by remaining accountable to those over us, and if we are in a ‘buck stops here’ position, then we must create a circle of trusted, level-headed advisors who have no vested interest in our success beyond calling out the best in us.They aren’t on our payroll; they won’t lose anything if they challenge us. We must stay teachable, honest and humble and yet we must not allow the fear of man and fear of man’s reprisal to stop us from making tough choices when tough choices must be made.

We can only do this by discovering how God sees us as His sons and daughters, and we can only learn this by spending concerted time in prayer and worship and by studying His word.

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Until Next Week

©2017 Katherine Walden

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